Shavuatov Bitachon of the day ❤️
Sometimes, a journey is only about reaching the destination. It’s about what happens along the way.
The Torah uses two different phrases to describe one’s journey but in the exact opposite word order: “their goings forth according to their journeys,” and “their journeys according to their goings forth.”
Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch explains that the first phrase in life, “their goings forth according to their journeys,” is about the future destination. The very point of “going forth” is to experience the end game of the journey. This viewpoint is from Hashem’s
perspective; whether we understand it or not, each stop was a necessary part of an ultimate Divine plan.
The second phrase, “their journeys according to their goings forth,” however, is the opposite end of the stick, where the point of the destination is primarily to create the experience of the journey. This phrase is about our perspective of each stop and how we see our journey as we experience each new adventure in the “now” of our lives.
Life frequently deviates from the goals we set, as unexpected events and interruptions arise, rerouting our journey. However, each pause, interruption, or moment of lost momentum isn't a deviation from our path but rather a journey in itself, orchestrated by Hashem for our growth and development.
On one hand, we perceive and interpret the journeys of our lives from our limited human perspective. On the other hand, we recognize the guiding hand of Hashem, understanding that there is a greater, interconnected picture at play. Sometimes, we catch a glimpse of it; other times, it remains completely hidden from view.
Throughout my entire life journey up to this point, I've experienced what I've described, and I firmly believe that everyone has encountered similar experiences. The key is to cultivate awareness and reflect on our journey, acknowledging Hashem's hand in every detour and obstacle. His role is crucial in shaping our lives.
Sometimes, the initial goal we strive for isn't where we ultimately end up. Despite the detours and obstacles, we often find ourselves exactly where we're meant to be in the end. I've often been asked how I attained this level of Emunah and Bitachon when I had little knowledge of Hashem, religion, or being a Jewish woman. Through my own journey, the more I connected with religion, the more I witnessed firsthand the miracles Hashem performed, both small and large. How could I not be grateful to Hashem for all the rerouting He orchestrated in my life? What I've learned most is that when we're at our lowest points, on the brink of giving up, that's when our Emunah and Bitachon must be the strongest. It's a time to Thank Him.
When my mom passed away, I found solace in repeatedly saying, "Thank you, Hashem, for what you've decided. You know better than I do." This perspective helped me cope. Knowing she was no longer suffering and in a better place in Olam Haba, I realized I shouldn't selfishly wish her back with me. I trust that Hashem has His reasons. We must remember that these detours are lessons along our journey, each step carrying a message to guide and perhaps redefine our goals. Journeys aren't just physical; they're inward spiritual experiences as well.
May we all embrace our own journey, including the detours along the way. Amen. 🙏
Wishing you all a wonderful day ❤️