Good morning Bitachon of the day ❤️
Hashem is kind, loving and merciful. Hashem created me in order to give to me. And Hashem wants what is for my best. While I am responsible to be proactive, I am not in charge of the outcome, and I am not the determinant of the results. That is Hashem’s role. And so, while I do my part, I rely on Hashem to care for me. I take my heavy burden and place it on Hashem.
Many believe there are two partners in the birth of a child: the father and the mother. Judaism believes there are three partners: the father, the mother, and God. The father and mother contribute the physical makeup of the child, while God contributes the soul.
While raising our children is the most complex thing to do in our lifetime, when we know that Hashem is our partner it’s so much easier. We must do our part, teach them to be kids of Hashem and show them the right path and we pray that Hashem will show the rest.
For my husband and me, our greatest joy is seeing our kids engage in prayer. The boys dutifully put on their Tefillin every day, attend the synagogue on Shabbat, while my girls light candles together every Friday. We pray with enthusiasm, and we sing joyfully as we welcome Shabbat. Making challah on Friday and Thank Hashem and pray for the sick. Additionally, we are known for our meticulous recitation of the Birkat Hamazon; my husband insists that everyone participates and articulates every word clearly.
For me, not having grown up in this environment, it's my greatest joy. My soul stirs every time I witness them performing a mitzvah. I firmly believe that children learn to do good by actually doing good, not just by learning about it. We have to engage them in performing mitzvot so they can feel deep inside how fulfilling it is to help someone.
All of my children volunteered at Alef, an incredible organization with an after-school program that teaches children of all ages, who don't attend Jewish schools, how to read Hebrew, pray, and learn about Jewish holidays. I encouraged my kids to participate, despite the challenges of a full day at school followed by homework and other activities. Initially, it was a struggle, but once they took that first step and went there, they felt an immense sense of fulfillment, realizing how fortunate they were to help others become more connected to their faith.
They formed connections with the children and felt compelled to do more, wanting to visit Alef once a week. I no longer had to push them; they eagerly anticipated returning each week to continue their meaningful work.
When you experience the impact of giving, it becomes addictive, compelling you to do more and continually seek ways to help others. Any act of kindness is considered a Mitzvah.
From a simple Hello in the elevator my son met a neighbor in our building and we became very close. My other son with a simple smile made a friend the cashier at CVS, my daughter giving health advice to every one she encounter and my other daughter talks and be kind to anyone she meets.
These are all expressions of being a child of Hashem. It's about showing care, compassion, and extending kindness to everyone we encounter.
May we instill in our children the understanding that Hashem is like a third parent, guiding, protecting, and nurturing us each day. May we always cherish His presence and be grateful for His blessings. Amen 🙏
Wishing you all a wonderful day ❤️